Friday, February 26, 2010

Our Little Lemon













Is it too good to be true?

A time free from morning sickness, sleepiness, and bloating.... a time when you belly is not too weighty, just cute.... a time when your hormones balance out and you stop getting upset about nothing....a time when you can feel the baby start to move....The SECOND TRIMESTER.

I'm there folks. I did not magically change when I hit 14 weeks, but I do feel better physically. Aaron and I both went in for a 14 week check up on Tuesday. Our lemon-sized baby is still going strong with a heart beat "somewhere in the 160's". I have gained 5 lbs (not the 15 I was dreading), and my uterus is moving quickly up into my addomen. I can actually feel the fundus of the uterus (about 2 in below my belly button) now - How cool is that?! When our provider was pushing down on my uterus to pick up the baby's heartbeat, she told us we were hearing the baby move in response. Movement is a static-y sound on the Doppler instrument.

As a side note, have you seen Lennart Nilsson's in-utero photos of the developing baby? Amazing.

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Word of Wisdom

I was assigned to give a talk at church today, to introduce the Word of Wisdom (revelation about refraining from harmful substances and eating healthy foods) to the congregation and share some of my thoughts about it. As I was reading and studying to prepare the content, I became more enthusiastic about the subject. I thought more about how I could relate it to my own experiences - seeing the issues many face by not following the counsel, my own transition as a convert, and the perspective I gain from my job. Here is the talk if you would like to read:

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"Neither the Church nor the world at large can hear too much about the Word of Wisdom. It is a doctrine given to man for man’s happiness and benefit. It is part of the philosophy of living… He who fails to live it robs himself of strength of body and strength of character to which he is entitled.” (Chapter 11 of Teachings of Presidents of the Church: David O. McKay)

The Word of Wisdom, or section 89 of the Doctrine and Covenants, was revealed to the prophet Joseph Smith in February 1833. The month prior to the revelation, a School of Prophets was organized to train priesthood holders in how to best fulfill their callings and preach the gospel. When they met, many of them smoked pipes and chewed tobacco. This tobacco use bothered the prophet, and he inquired of Lord about it. In response to Joseph’s inquiry on the matter, the Lord revealed the Word of Wisdom.

The Word of Wisdom is a law of health which specifies foods that are good for us and substances which are not. It also lists the blessings promised to those who follow the counsel. In summary, the Word of Wisdom lists alcoholic drinks, tobacco, tea, and coffee as not good for man. Grains, vegetables, herbs, and fruits are all listed as good to eat. Meats are also to eat, but should be used sparingly. The revelation does not specifically mention illegal drugs or other addictive substances, but the basic principles outlined therein – to eat things that are healthy for the body and avoid those that are not – easily applies to such items.

The blessings predicated for those who following the counsel are “health in their navel and marrow to their bones; wisdom and great treasures of knowledge, even hidden treasures; [they shall] run and not be weary, and shall walk and not faint; [lastly, the Lord promises] that the destroying angel shall pass by them, as the children of Israel, and not slay them." (Doctrine & Covenants 89:18–21)

Many members of the church, myself included, are faced with questions about the Word of Wisdom – especially the avoidance of harmful substances. I have found the best explanation for them and for myself is found in Doctrine & Covenants 29:34, “Wherefore, verily I say unto you that all things unto me are spiritual, and not at any time have I given unto you a law which was temporal”. In other words, Latter-Day Saints abstain from addictive, harmful substances and eat healthy foods in moderation because this benefits our bodies, provides us with precious agency, and helps invite spiritual companionship of the Holy Ghost. In addition, our care for our body is intrinsically linked to the care for our spirit. We should never be ashamed or embarrassed to explain why we make such choices.

Addiction is a powerful vice. Most or many of us face addictions, in many forms and to varying degrees. The addiction related to harmful substances is very powerful. I have seen it in my own family, among many friends, among patients, and among strangers. The portion of the Word of Wisdom addressing harmful, addictive substances in given for a purpose. Regular use of such things creates dependence and laziness of the body, and, in some cases, the thought that one is free from any consequences related to actions. “The Church urges men to have self-mastery to control their appetites, their tempers, and their speech. A man is not at his best when he is a slave to some habit. A man is not his best who lives merely to gratify his passions.” (Chapter 11 of Teachings of the Presidents of the Church: David O McKay) If we can master temptation to use such substances, we become stronger. This mastery can be used to conquer other temptations or addictions. We can better practice self-control.

As a convert of 2 years, I have not always followed the counsel in the Word of Wisdom. Thankfully, I grew up in a home with parents who showed and continue to show temperance, and I, myself, have never dealt with addiction to a harmful substance. I gave up alcohol first. Later, when I began studying the gospel in earnest, I gave up coffee and tea. I have never been a regular smoker. My eating habits did not change too much, although I began to spread out my meat consumption to begin using it more “sparingly”. When I gave these items up, everything/my world felt clearer. Almost like a slight veil was gone from the world. It was one less thing to worry about.

My transition was not too difficult. I have vices elsewhere, of course. But I know that the transition can be overwhelming for many who want to or are converting, or for members who are struggling with addiction. When studying the topic more, I found out that the revealed Word of Wisdom was not originally given as a commandment. Some of the Saints in 1833 had habits or addictions. The Lord allowed time for them to change. Not until an 1851 General Conference did the prophet Brigham Young propose that the Saints make a formal covenant to follow the counsel. After unanimous acceptance, the instruction became a binding commandment. Just as the Lord had compassion on the Saints, we can also grow in our compassion for and willingness to help those not yet following or struggling to follow the Word of Wisdom. The church has an addiction recovery program, and stresses that those struggling receive help through prayer, family, friends and church leaders. In addition, one can find recommendations for how to help and encourage those struggling with addiction in Preach My Gospel.

As I have developed a testimony of truth of the Word of the Wisdom spiritually, I have also been able to see its truth in my professional life. I have been researching the ill effects of tobacco and the best ways to help tobacco users quit. In addition, I perform some tobacco industry monitoring tasks in my job. I have learned how the Lord’s counsel was given “in consequence of the evils and designs which do and will exist in the hearts of conspiring men in the last days.” (Doctrine & Covenants 89:4) He truly has “warned and forewarned” us in these latter days. You might or might not be shocked to know how invested the tobacco industry is in getting you to smoke. How these conspiring figures have knowingly pushed addiction and harm on the public, particularly the most vulnerable, the mentally ill, the poor, and the most stressed individuals throughout the world. Are you surprised to know that some tobacco companies give out free cigarettes at homeless shelters? Of the 21% of Americans who smoke, up to 70% want to quit. Only about 2-3% are successful at quitting each year. On a positive note, the rise of telephone quit lines, effective tobacco prevention and treatment strategies, and medicinal therapies are helping users quit more and more.

We should also be aware of the push for other unhealthy behaviors. The social acceptance of heavy drinking (and its expectation among youth), recreational drug use, overuse of caffeine, overeating, and poor nutrition are also evidence of the truth of the warning in the Word of Wisdom. Some suggestions to combat the latter two vices - cook at home more, trying to incorporate fresh, locally-grown fruits and vegetables into a diet as much as possible. Space out consumption of meat and make healthy substitutions in recipes where possible. These small differences can give us more vitality and thanksgiving for our food. Healthy food can taste great and often cost the same or less than processed foods. The Farmer’s Market program that our ward has started is a great example of following the Word of Wisdom!

I hope that we in the church and those around us can be strengthened when faced with temptation and trial. I testify that following the Word of Wisdom will bring many blessings to you and family, as it has to me and mine. Your world will be clearer. You can better face other challenges and be more worthy of the Spirit to help you meet them. I pray that we will not be afraid to stand up for this righteous choice and that we will grow in love, compassion, and desire to help those who are struggling with addiction.

I say these things in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.

Thursday, February 18, 2010

Durham Technical Community College

I'm a pregnant commmunity college student...

Two classes occupy a large chunk of my free time Mon-Thurs nights this semester. I am taking Psychology and Human Anatomy/Physiology with lab. You may be asking, "Pray tell, why are you taking more classes?" I have been considering a second or dual career in public health nursing, and these are the final two prerequisite courses I need to apply to UNC's nursing school. Of course, there are many "ifs" involved in the scenario of me going back to school with a small child, but I would like to be ready if the choice and time are right.

I have been pleasantly surprised with Durham Tech. The professor knows each student. The students are very intelligent, many of them have similar interests/career aspirations and some have similiar backgrounds. There is more variety of lifestyle and life experience among the students at Durham Tech than I have found in a university setting. The 30 students in my classes really want to be there, and many of them work full-time. Many have children.

In a way, I feel like I have been duped. Duped into thinking that if you are smart, you must go to a university. Duped into thinking that community college is somehow inferior. I must fervently say no! How grateful I am to have a new learning experience in this setting. Circumstance afforded me the opportunity for university education and graduate school. Intelligence played a part, yes, but was not the main factor. The world may tell you differently, but we are all so very simlilar. Experiences such as this help me to better realize that statement.

Monday, February 15, 2010

The Belly

(Photo courtesy of Cartoonstock)

I noticed late last week that my clothes don't fit as well. Pants have been slightly tight on my stomach for a couple of weeks. Now, those second-skin skinny jeans just don't fit anywhere! Am I supposed to be gaining inches at the end of the 3rd month of pregnancy?!

Sunday, February 14, 2010

You're Mine, Valentine



One word - IRRESISTIBLE

My husband is so dreamy. This is one of my absolute favorites pictures of him - he is tan and holding a lot of money. Enough said.

When I first met Aaron I thought, "What a great smile" and "Way out of my league". Fast-forward 6 months later, we are dating and learning about this whole new side of each other. The more I learned and continue to learn on a daily basis, the more I think "Yep, definitely way out of my league". Now, that goes not only for his dashing good looks, but for his warm heart, his faith and devotion to the gospel, the love he has for his family, his natural knack with kids (good thing right about now, eh?), his humor, and his amazing constantly-working mind.

Some folks say that Valentine's Day is not for married folks, but I disagree. It's a day with extra moments I get to savor him, be grateful for him, and show him that I love him more than he'll ever know.

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Towers' Best Recipes of 2009

Aaron and I threw together (well actually, this took a few hours) our favorite recipes from 2009 back in January. Cooking/baking has been a fun pasttime of ours since we got married. Aaron says he likes me to direct the cooking, and he likes to take orders. How can I argue with that?

We zipped severval documents into this file - Meats, Veggies, Breads, Desserts, and Appetizers. Check it out!

Oh yes, and the baby! Everything is going great at 12.5 weeks. I am patiently waiting for the second trimester to start, so all digestive discomforts will magically disappear. That is how it happens, right? I am also patiently waiting for my baby bump - it just doesn't feel as real without it. I have an appt with an OB nurse today, to talk about prenatal care and finances (oh, the joy). At the end of the month, Aaron and I go in to hear the baby's quick little heartbeat again and get a checkup.

Monday, February 8, 2010

Shortbread and Yoga



Lemon Cornmeal Shortbread Cookies (recipe and pic from Poppytalk)

Buttery, buttery! Which is a good thing when you are pregnant, perhaps not a good thing when you are not... These sweet, tiny cookies really hit the spot. As an added benefit, I have heard that lemon eases morning sickness. Baking on Sundays makes me feel domestic. :)

2/3 c all-purpose flour
1/4 c yellow cornmeal
2 T cornstarch
1/4 t salt
1/2 c unsalted butter, softened
1/3 c confectioners sugar
1/2 t pure vanilla extract
1 T lemon juice (or add until you reach the right dough consistency)
grated lemon zest from 1 lemon
Coconut for sprinkling

Preheat oven to 350F. In a large bowl, blend together the butter and sugar until fluffy. Add in the vanilla and lemon zest and mix. In another bowl, combine the flour, cornmeal, cornstarch and salt and whisk together. Slowly add in the dry ingredients into the butter/sugar mixture and stir until just combined. Add in lemon juice until you reach the right consistency - thick but slightly moist.

Prepare your baking sheet with parchment paper, and using your hands, pinch off about a tablespoon of dough and roll into a ball (this will make your hands buttery!). Press each ball with a fork and repeat, spacing each cookie about 1 inch apart. Sprinkle with coconut and bake for 12ish minutes or until the undersides of the cookie are slightly golden (mine never turned golden, so I just guesstimated). Makes about 18 cookies.

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Yoga class finally happened for me on Saturday.

Since I found out we are expecting, I have toned down my yoga practice (i.e., no deep spinal twists, lying on stomach, and upward-facing dog is pretty relaxed). I have mostly been practicing at home with all the new videos I got for Christmas. I prefer Shiva Rea to others (see video) if you are needing any recommendations. I attempted one prenatal yoga class in Durham, and I was sorely dissapointed. I didn't sweat for the entire 1.5 hours!! Plus I was the the only person not in her late second or third trimester...embarrassing.

Yoga pre-pregnancy has always been intense - Bikram, flow, power, ashtanga, etc. I love to sweat a lot and balance in crazy ways when I practice. I love the challenge of it. I feel like "Wow, thanks body! You just did that!". It is very empowering.

Since the prenatal wasn't cutting it, I summoned my courage and went back to my beloved Carrboro Yoga Company for a Hatha class with a past teacher (not prenatal). It was great, although still not sweaty enough. As that teacher would say, I am a "pusher" in yoga practice.

Yoga completes me.

Thursday, February 4, 2010

And So It Begins



Welcome to Aaron and Angela's blog!

Quick confession - we have had this blog since March of last year, but we have been disinclined to start it until now. (We love blogs, don't get me wrong, we just didn't want to commit.) Now, we have a fabulous wonderful excuse. We're pregnant! What a great way to chart the pregnancy and update everyone...

We are 11 weeks as of Monday, February 1. Our cute little alien (see picture) is due on August 22, 2010. Several women have asked me what I was thinking planning my third trimester in the southern summer; I suppose we'll cross that bridge soon. I have felt a range of great, good, pretty tired, slight upset stomach, and excited during the pregnancy so far. I can't complain.

Also, I am in awe of motherhood. All my body has been doing up until this point is going to school, working, going to school again, working again, etc. Honestly, it's just crazy that now it will make another human! Wow. Honestly, I think part of me thought I might never be a mother, just becuase it is so foreign to my experience thus far. But, now, I am so grateful...We can't wait for our new addition!